Home for the Holidays – Alone
Every year millions of women spend the holidays alone, nursing old wounds, mourning lost loves, and lamenting how each New Year’s Eve they have to watch TV as the ball in Times Square drops down on yet...
View ArticleToo Good or Not Good Enough?
Like many women, when we get together someone is talking about men. Either their too good to be true, or not good enough. Or plentiful enough. Or tall enough… the list goes on. Why are women so fond of...
View Article“Nothing Helps a Bad Product Fail Faster Than Good Advertising”
I’m often asked what I think about fudging the truth on photos and personal descriptions using online dating services. Being in marketing for so many years, I learned that there are various stages to...
View ArticleThe Goal of the First Date is to Get to the Second Date
Why oh why would you want to share all your stories, your health conditions and your baggage with someone new right off the bat? The problem with disclosing too much too soon is that you give too many...
View ArticleBeware of Social Saboteurs
I was asked recently on a radio interview what some people do to sabotage their chances for finding romance. I had to talk fast because there were a lot of things I wanted to say but here are just a...
View ArticleAbout Cougars
I’ve been asked a lot, “What about Cougar women?” The question is often asked as though it’s a really great thing that women are going for younger men, and getting them. And I suppose for some women,...
View ArticleYou’re either “wooing” or you’re not.
Gentlemen – forget what women say about independence and equality and paying their own way; when it comes to dating, you’re either wooing or not. It’s understandable that you don’t want to be taken for...
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